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The first of several hundred documents and letters that were to come out of this process was our Lutheran Ministries Adoption Application. It was followed by our Holt Adoption Application. It was an exciting time and we vowed that if there were going to be delays (and we knew there would be), it wouldn't be on our account. We got busy, and busy was good. Unfortunately, for us, we did most of our initial paper shuffle and shuttle during the preparation and duration of the 1996 Olympics here in Atlanta. It was a hassle, but it didn't slow us down.
Working with LMG, meant that most of the real work would be done by their consultants and our social worker. We had to get our fingerprints, get our medical exams, letters from our banks, employers and references from our friends, etc., but all the notarization, certification, authentication and dossier preparation would be done by LMG. Holt would do the dossier translation and see that it arrived safely in China. We would wait, and wait we did.
Throughout the process, I saved everything. I had a file about a foot thick by the time our dossier left the United States. Although I thinned it out a bit after we got home from our trip, most of it is still in tact. I learned early on, that organization was important. I had to know which piece of paper was where, what was done, what needed to be done and what, at any given moment, were we waiting for, who was waiting on us, and who were we waiting on.
Being a computer nerd, I relied heavily to my PC. Microsoft Word and Excel came in real handy as well as Symantec's contact management software,
ACT!. I made checklists, typed letters, scanned documents, scheduled our appointments and pretty much ran our adoption "business" from within the box that sits on my desk.
Just to give you an idea, here's a list of the documents that sprouted into existance as part of our adoption quest.
| INS DOCUMENTS |
| Date |
Form |
Document |
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Notary |
Cert |
Auth |
Dossier |
| n/a | I-864pkg | Affidavit of Support Package |  |
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| 6/17/1996 | I-600A | Application For Advance Processing of Orphan Petition |  |
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| 7/15/1996 | | Photocopies of Terry & Carolyn's Passports | |
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| 10/22/1996 | I-171H | Notice of Favorable Determination Concerning Application for Advance Processing of Orphan Petition | |
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| 10/29/1997 | I-600 | Petition to Classify Orphan as Immediate Relative |  |
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| 11/9/1997 | | Emma's Resident Alien Registration (Green Card) | |
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| 8/12/1998 | N-643 | Application for Certificate of Citizenship in Behalf of an Adopted Child |  |
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| AGENCY DOCUMENTS |
| Date |
Document |
Notary |
Cert |
Auth |
Dossier |
| 6/9/1996 | Child Information Form |  |  |  |  |
| 6/9/1996 | Monthly Cash Flow Analysis |  |  |  |  |
| 6/10/1996 | LMG Adoption Application |  |  |  |  |
| 6/15/1996 | Holt International Adoption Application |  |  |  |  |
| 6/24/1996 | Verification of Deposits |  |  |  |  |
| 7/8/1996 | Terry's Autobiography |  |  |  |  |
| 9/10/1996 | Adoptive Home Study Evaluation |  |  |  |  |
| 10/10/1996 | Adoptive Home Study Synopsis |  |  |  |  |
| 7/22/1997 | Child Assignment Letter |  |  |  |  |
| 8/1/1997 | Placement Agreement |  |  |  |  |
| 8/4/1997 | Carolyn's Autobiography |  |  |  |  |
| 8/5/1997 | Travel Preparation Questionnaire |  |  |  |  |
| 2/10/1998 | Post-Placement Report |  |  |  |  |
| 5/10/1998 | Post-Placement Report |  |  |  |  |
| STATE & LOCAL GOVERNMENT DOCUMENTS |
| Date |
Document |
Notary |
Cert |
Auth |
Dossier |
| 7/3/1996 | Carolyn's City of Atlanta Police Clearance Letter |  |  |  |  |
| 7/3/1996 | Terry's City of Atlanta Police Clearance Letter |  |  |  |  |
| 7/12/1996 | Terry's Divorce Decree |  |  |  |  |
| 7/19/1996 | Terry's Birth Certificate |  |  |  |  |
| 7/31/1996 | Carolyn's Birth Certificate |  |  |  |  |
| 8/5/1996 | Marriage License |  |  |  |  |
| 5/18/1998 | Certificate of Adoption |  |  |  |  |
| 5/22/1998 | Certificate of Foreign Birth |  |  |  |  |
| LETTERS |
| Date |
Document |
Notary |
Cert |
Auth |
Dossier |
| 6/8/1996 | Adoption Expense Financial Plan |  |  |  |  |
| 6/14/1996 | Application Letter |  |  |  |  |
| 6/19/1996 | Terry's Employment Letter |  |  |  |  |
| 7/14/1996 | Certificate of Assets |  |  |  |  |
| 7/19/1996 | Carolyn's Medical Exam Letter |  |  |  |  |
| 7/19/1996 | Terry's Medical Exam Letter |  |  |  |  |
| 7/30/1996 | Carolyn's Employment Letter |  |  |  |  |
| 8/8/1996 | Infirtility Letter |  |  |  |  |
| 1/10/1998 | Digital Equipment's Adoption Benefit Claim Form |  |  |  |  |
| 5/23/1998 | TAP's Adoption Benefit Claim Form |  |  |  |  |
| CHINESE GOVERNMENT DOCUMENTS |
| Date |
Document |
Notary |
Cert |
Auth |
Dossier |
| 6/14/1996 | Information About the Prospective Adoptive Parent |  |  |  |  |
| 7/21/1997 | Physical Examination Form & Translation |  |  |  |  |
| 10/29/1997 | Chinese Abandonment Certificate & Translation |  |  |  |  |
| 10/29/1997 | Chinese Adoption Certificate & Translation |  |  |  |  |
| 10/29/1997 | Chinese Birth Certificate |  |  |  |  |
| 10/29/1997 | Emma's Chinese Visa |  |  |  |  |
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